(Trigger Warning: Themes of suicide.)
The morning is crying. The alarm pulls me out of sleepy stupor, a little babe screaming me out of bed. I look out the window. I give sound to the world with a sigh that millions share. I’m sure the sun would chuckle if it just peeked through the sky’s grey veil. But it can’t because the morning is crying.
My bones feel the storm as I lift a spoonful of processed grains and milk to fill my belly. I ignore that bulging belly I hope to shrink as I dress in business casual. Willing my body to wake, I hurry out the door, almost forgetting the packed leftovers the fridge half-killed. I almost forget to kiss my family’s cheeks, too. But honestly, did they really care?
The morning is crying, tears hitting my windshield. I drive past signs and scenery as gray and bland as I feel inside. I sing loudly to music hoping to drown out my thoughts and the nervous anxiety over the cars driving next to me. Despite my nerves, part of me wishes that someone hits me.
I reach a parking lot and kill the engine in a yellow lined stall. I look up through the windshield at the greyish white building looming ahead. It houses a prison unlike any other. The work office. Most mornings I’m ambivalent about the sentence I serve, the job I am locked in. But today is different. The morning is crying.
I take the elevator knowing every stair would feel like a mountain this morning. I walk into the office limply waving at co-workers with a sticker smile under my nose. I reach my desk and plop into my chair with a sigh. I hunch over and begin to work. Or at least try to look busy. I steal glances out the window and try to not be too bored. I’m not very successful. Boredom encases my brain while responsibility chains me to a swiveling chair.
My thoughts begin to wander as I stare at the soulless computer screen. I stare so long that my eyes begin to cross and I hallucinate my thoughts being typed out before me. I shift uncomfortably at what they say.
“What’s the point?” I think. “What’s the point of using precious breath and space to prolong such a pathetic life? Why when the most exciting thing most every work day is when you give your leftovers to be murdered by the microwave? Only to return to your desk with the heated remains of last night’s dinner and work through lunch?”
I close my eyes to stop reading, but that doesn’t silence the thoughts.
“What have you done with your life? You thought you’d be in such a different place by now. Where are the dreams? Where are your plans? Once so vibrant, they have crumbled like dried out rose petals and scattered like ashes.”
In silence I hang my head. What have I accomplished? I had so many dreams once. Each shining gems in my hands. My wife and I would share and admire them together under the stars. Then reality sucker punched me over and over. One by one, the gems slipped from my fingers and sank into a sea of mediocrity.
I look to the office window. I stand up and walk over. With my hand o the glass I stare down at the parking lot. Neat yellow lines on black asphalt box in rows of cars. I feel as boxed in and unexciting as those parking spots. Even worse, I feel like an undesirable empty space so far from the building that no one really wants to park there. The kind of spot that only gets filled when there’s no where else left. I’m that sad little parking stall that everyone in my life settled for.
Tears drip on the windowpane. The morning’s been crying since I woke up but not just outside. It’s been crying inside me. I guess I already knew before realizing it.
I turn to my desk and sit back down to quickly type an email. I write a quick note on a lined notepad then fold it up and put it in my pocket. I log out of my computer and walk past co-workers towards the door. To those who question I give some answer about feeling sick. Not a complete lie.
Silently, I make it to my car not too far from the building. Not very close but even I prefer a parking spot more desirable than me. I start the car. I don’t even bother turning on my music. What’s the point unless to play some sad song, theme music, or anthem to match the atmosphere with my insides.
I drive without any real destination.
“Where to go, where to go?” I mumble to myself. I could go home but that would bring to many questions I’m not strong enough to lie to. Maybe a park? Nah, too public. I need somewhere mostly private, quiet enough for peace but not so quiet as to drown me in silence. And high. I feel a strange need to be somewhere high enough to look out over things. I drive towards the mountains.
I drive up main roads as far up the mountains as I can go. I turn onto the first dirt road with a sign that says “Overlook Trailhead.” By now my ears have popped from the change in elevation. I reach the end of the road and the beginning of a hiking trail. I pull to the side of the road and park.
I’m not really dressed for it, but I get out of the car and set on the trail through the trees. I keep my eyes out for any place where I can possibly sit and look out over the valley. But I can’t find a place until fifteen-twenty minutes have passed. I find a large boulder overlooking the valley, sticking out like a wart on a fair lady. The view is breathtaking. The opposite of my insides.
I take my wallet out of my pocket and open it to pull out a small photo. It’s of my family. My wife and son smiling next to me. I heave a sigh heavy with decades of human experience. I set the photo down on the rock next to me and stand up. I close my eyes and tense up as I prepare to step forward.
“That’s a very lovely family.”
I flinch and open my eyes to see someone crouching down to look at the photo I left on the ground.
“Excuse me?” I say.
The stranger is a young man, probably in his twenties. He’s dressed in hiking clothes and boots with a red backpack. A red and blue Boston Red Sox baseball cap sits on his head. He looks up and smiles.
“I said that’s a very lovely family,” he says.
“Um, thanks,” I reply.
“How old is your son?”
“Almost five.”
“That’s cool. He looks like you.”
I shrug my shoulders.
“Not really. He takes after his mother.”
“I can see that. But he’s got your expression and smile down pat.”
He hands me the photo. I look closely at it. He’s right! How have I not noticed that before?
“I guess you’re right.”
The stranger smiles.
“He must really love you. Why else would he be smiling like that?”
I about laugh.
“My son was yelling at me and throwing a tantrum about wearing a button shirt just two hours before that was taken.”
“Oh?”
“Yeah. He wanted to wear a Batman shirt and cape instead. My poor wife was at her wit’s end and I was just trying not to lose my temper.”
“How did you get him smiling for the picture then?”
I actually laugh this time.
“Notice how only his upper body is in the photo?”
“Yeah.”
“I let him wear his dinosaur slippers.”
The guy laughs.
“I’m sure your wife was happy with that.”
Actually she was. I remember it quite clearly. Not only had I let my son wear his dinosaur slippers, I also let him wear his Batman shirt under the buttoned up one. He was so happy that he drew me a picture later that day. I also remember my wife’s smile as she thanked me for the help. After taking photos we all went and got ice cream. The waitress gave my son an extra scoop for being polite which he in turn shared with me.
I smile.
“What is it?” the stranger asks.
“Oh, nothing. So you really think he has my smile?”
“Definitely. He certainly got one of his best features from you. Oh, by the way I’d get away from the edge there. Don’t want to take that a shortcut.”
“Oh, yeah.”
I step away from the edge and step back onto the trail. They guy smiles at me then gets a serious look on his face.
”I know what you were doing there. Man, I get it. But I don’t know if that son and wife of yours would. I know it’s hard and you probably feel like you’re worthless, but they need you. The smile and expression on your kid’s face tells me you’re worthwhile to him.”
He turns and begins to walk away.
“Oh, and so you know every spot is important in a crowded parking lot.”
I watch him disappear around the corner and into the trees. I then realize I hadn’t talked at all about parking lots. With this realization, I hurry after him. I go around the bend and… he is gone. Confusion blooms in my mind like ink in water. Where did he go? How did he know?
Unable to find him, I walk back to the boulder and sit down. I gaze out over the valley. It really is pretty. By now it’s afternoon. My stomach rumbles, complaining that I never did let the break room microwave murder my leftovers. I ignore it. The morning was crying. Now the afternoon was overcast, not sure whether to start crying, too.
I take out the note I had written earlier from my pocket. I unfold it and hold it up next to the photo of my family. I read the note.
“My dear, I love you. I’m really sorry. Please, give our son a hug for me. Good-bye.”
A simple note. Few words. But heavy all the same.
“What am I doing?” I wonder aloud. I drop to my knees and begin to shout to the skies.
“I know I shouldn’t, but how can I go on?! When I’ve done nothing! When I am nothing! Who needs me?! I don’t deserve them!”
I bend over and put my forehead to the stone sobbing.
“I don’t deserve them…”
I kneel there for an eternity of minutes. My subconscious begins to whisper.
“Maybe you don’t deserve them. But you have them. You want them. You love them.”
I lift my head and stare at the wet rock where my tears fell. I begin to speak to the air again.
“I have them. I want them. How can I throw them away?”
I sit up and look down at my hands. The photo in my left and the note in my right. Both crumpled in anguish. Wounded by the battle raging in mind. Which should I save?
I open my left hand and smooth out the family photo. My wife and son smile up at me. I fold it up as neatly as I can and stick it in my pocket. I take a deep breath and stand up. I close my eyes and let my other senses take over.
Quiet. So quiet. Barely a rustle. Barely a distant bird song. I smell nearby grass and slightly damp trees and soil. I feel cool slightly humid air mixing with the tears on my cheeks. Goosebumps dot my skin. With my eyes closed, I feel my world rotating beneath my feet, anxiously anticipating what comes next.
It suddenly stops. I snap my eyes open. I wind up my right arm and throw the note with all my mustered strength. It feels surreal as the crumpled paper ball slips through my fingers towards the horizon. It flies over the edge and disappears. Suddenly I feel numb.
I feel empty. Not bad or good. Just empty. Like a space inside had just been vacated and silence pervades the air people left behind. And all I can think is, “What now?”
I stand there for who knows how long. Finally I turn to return to the car. When I get to the car I look towards the sky. It’s still swathed in sad gray clouds. But off towards the horizon I see a tear in the blanket of dreariness. A patch of sky blue winks at me. I guess not even the sky can cry forever.